Aristotle’s musings
On what constitutes a friend
Is quite a challenging subject
He started discussions without end
.
Do we have friends for ourselves
Or do we love them for who they are?
It has to be a mutual love
Or else we would keep them in a jar
.
Some friendships last for lifetimes
Others are just passing through
Neither better than the other
You’ll know when they are true
.
A good friend is a mirror
They tell you what they see
They don’t say it to hurt you
And you do not have to agree
.
It may be that you hear them
It may be that you choose not
But when you lose the connection
Try not to lose the plot
.
Remember all the good times
That you have shared together
We all live our lives in different ways
And coincidence doesn’t last for ever
.
Memories are your history
That develops as you age
Do not taint past friendships
By tearing out the page
.
Respect the intimacies and laughter
That you have shared with an old friend
Try to avoid the “what ifs”
They will only drive you round the bend
.
If there is no tomorrow
With a love you still hold dear
Take what you’ve learned together
And travel on without holding onto fear
.
There are so many good people
Where ever you may go
Carry love lightly in your heart
And you’ll see your friendship circle grow
.
n.b. The language we choose to use defines our world. Pick your words with care and respect and you will write and tell the stories that define the way you think. You are what other people hear you say. It is your choice, obviously.
n.n.b. If you remember the good any future coincidental crossing of paths will be a lot easier and happier – I believe.
Thank you for reading.
CLP 30/12/2019
Journey of Words 